Leave it at work

"The weekend fixes it"

Chapter 14 · 2 min read

Five evenings at the desk is bad, but there's Saturday. Two days with no meetings, no inbox, nothing due. Whatever the week took, the weekend gives back, and by Monday you're level again.

Charlotte Fritz and Sabine Sonnentag followed 87 emergency service workers through a weekend and into the week after. What happened at the weekend predicted how people were on Monday. Three things predicted burnout and poor well-being afterwards. Hassles in their non-work life over the weekend. Low social activity. And the absence of something the researchers called positive work reflection, which is thinking about the good side of the job. Weekend experiences also predicted how well people did their jobs the following week.

Notice what isn't on that list. Two days off didn't fix things by themselves. What the weekend did depended on what was in it, and a weekend spent at the desk, in the head, has the wrong things in it. It has the passenger, who's had two whole days with no meetings to interrupt. It has low social activity, because you were there but not there. And it has no positive reflection, because the fret doesn't do positive. It does the audit and how it'll go wrong.

There's a mistake of arithmetic in the belief, too. Recovery doesn't bank. Sonnentag and Bayer's diary study found that detachment worked day by day. The evening you switched off gave you a better next morning. The evening you didn't gave you a worse one. Five worse mornings aren't cancelled by a Saturday. They've already happened. Wednesday had Tuesday night in it whatever Saturday held. The weekend can restore you for Monday, if it's a real weekend, but it can't reach back and give you Wednesday.

The honest version of the belief is that weekends matter, and they do. Fritz and Sonnentag's study is an argument for guarding them, for putting people and activity in them rather than the passenger. Chapter 22 is about what to put in an evening, and the same applies to a Saturday. But a weekend isn't a repair kit for a week of evenings at the desk. It's two more evenings, and two mornings, that the passenger will take if you let it.

So the question isn't how to make Saturday big enough to hold the week. It's how to make Tuesday small enough that Saturday doesn't have to. And that's the last ten, the crossing, and the line on paper, every day, which the next chapters get to after a look at what the passenger costs.